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JunTos Foundation, the Power of Family & Friends

An interview with Maruchi Mendez and Lidia Godoi

Born of Loss

JunTos Foundation, a non-profit with a mission to eradicate cancer and heart disease, honors the lives of 18 year old, Juanchi de la Rua and 20 year old, Ramiro "Toti" Mendez, two promising young athletes, teammates and friends, whose deaths inspired the birth of an organization.

A word, a name, a mission

JunTos literally embodies the mission and spirit of the organization, transforming the Spanish word for together into an acronym memorializing the two young men at the heart of the organizations incarnation.

JunTos decoded: JU for Juanchi, N for and, TO for Toti


Knowing my business and interest in art, friend and artist, Asandra Lamb emailed me about an art auction at the Cisneros Fontanals Art Foundation CIFO , that she had been asked to participate in. The auction, benefiting cancer and heart disease research, was part of a larger annual fund raising effort by local non-profit organization, JunTos. Sensing a good opportunity I recommended the auction to L3 client, artist Helene Weiss. Her participation afforded me the opportunity to not only attend a spectacular event it gave me a chance to meet JunTos’ Maruchi Mendez and Lidia Godoi, and learn all about the extraordinary organization prompting this piece.


AM: Tell me about the origins of JunTos and the two young men who inspired the organization?

MM: JunTos originated in 2004, to honor and remember Juanchi de la Rua and Ramiro "Toti" Mendez, baseball teammates at the Westminster Christian School in Miami. Juanchi passed away in October 1998 of bone cancer and Toti passed away in April 2000 of cardiomyopathy

 

AM: How did Juanchi and Toti’s passing impact your lives and the lives of their friends?

MM: It was devastating to me and their friends lost two teammates within 18 months of each other. They were 18 and 20 years of age and this was an age where you are not exposed to death, especially of a close friend.

 

AM: How did JunTos take shape?

MM: Two of the teammates, Javier Lopez and Michael Mendez started talking about doing something in their memory.

 

AM: When we first began speaking I remember thinking how remarkable these two young men must have been to illicit this kind of passion… and conversely how equally remarkable their friends must be.

MM: Absolutely, were talking about Harvard, Georgetown and Yale graduates, young people that were starting out in their professions, busy enough getting their lives started and working hard at their professions. There were so many things that they could have been doing instead of putting so much time into this.

 

AM: Who else makes up the organization?

MM: Young professionals, men and women, their friends and families.

AM: Is Juanchi’s family actively involved with JunTos as well?

MM: Yes, very much so. You will meet them at the event. 

 

AM: Did you immediately channel your pain into action with JunTos?

MM: First I tried to lobby for better testing of athletes.  This meant EKG’s and extensive physical exams.  Also, I brought awareness at F.I.U. of the need to have defibrillators readily accessible.  There is also a Scholarship Endowment in Toti’s name at FIU to award scholarships to young athletes that become ill.

 

AM: In what ways are the memories of Juanchi and Toti represented by the foundation?

MM: We try to target the same needs they had.  Also we honor their courage during the face of their illness, awarding the “JunTos Courage Award” every year to young men and women that are victims of these awful diseases. We have helped both financially and morally, many patients and their family.  We are also Golden Angels of the Jackson Memorial Foundation and contribute a large amount yearly to research of both illnesses.

 

AM: Tell me more about the courage awards.

MM: The nominees are picked for their unusual courage in the face of illness, then the board votes and a recipient is selected.

LG: This year the courage award goes to two sisters, who had heart transplants, they had same condition as Toti.

  

AM: In what way has JunTos changed the direction of your life?

MM: It has become my source of inspiration.

 

AM: What has being a part of JunTos done for you personally?

MM: Given me much satisfaction to see the legacy my son left and how he is remembered.

 

AM: How do you feel about what you are doing, I mean do you recognize the huge significance of it all?

MM: I do and I feel awesome, but all I concentrate… selfishly is that long after I’m gone… I mean let’s face it Juanchi and Toti had to have been two very special young men to have left such an impact on their classmates and teammates that their moved to not forget them. They talk about them and their jokes constantly.

 

AM: Because of Toti's heart condition was the possibility of an early death just something you learned to live with?

MM: No, he had cardiomyopathy, which had gone undetected all those years. My son was the picture of health, a top athlete, he was an All American. He was in the best baseball program in the nation. Westminster Christian, were the Juanchi and Toti went to school had the number #1 baseball program in the nation... at that time. That's were A-Rod came from. Juanchi died in High School, but Toti went on to play college baseball. He had a scholarship and it (cardiomyopathy) went undiagnosed all that time. His death was a traumatic blow.

 

AM: So was Toti born with the condition and nothing could have been done if detected earlier?

MM: A lot could have been done. He should not have been playing sports that's for sure and training so hard.

 

AM: None of his physicians or coaches thru his athletic medical checkups ever detected it?

MM: No, no they always pushed for more. It’s normal for an athlete to feel tired so they ignore it.

 

AM: But the physicians never saw it... don’t the athletes have to report for regular checkups?

MM: No they don’t. In High School, kids just need a note from their doctor and Toti's doctor never caught it – I don’t think his regular checkups were deep enough or thorough enough.

LG: Because of Toti's death… tell Andrew about the defibrillators

MM: Eleanor Soho, a representative from Ft Lauderdale finally forced defibrillators in all the High Schools – Toti died at home, but had this happened at school or on the baseball field there never would have been a defibrillator close enough – I lobbied a lot for better testing of athletes which died in the House of Representatives.

 

LG: But there is a bill that passed

MM: No it didn’t pass, it piggybacked of another bill/added to another bill but it didn’t become as important as I would have wanted it – I think the original bill passed in congress and died in the house or vice versa

 

MM: But Ileana Ross gave my son his 3 minutes in the House of Representatives when she spoke of Toti and how unnecessary his death was.

 

AM: Given how athletic and how healthy Toti appeared, what would you say to parents or anyone about heart disease?

MM: To parents... your child might look healthy, but you need to be aware of any abnormal symptoms and act promptly. We are responsible to keep them safe.

 

JunTos Event

AM: Tell me about the JunTos event

LG: The event has been called one of the best fund raising parties in Miami

 

AM: How was the event conceived?

MM: In one of the meetings so that we could raise money for these causes

 

AM: How did you decide what elements were important & how did you institute them

MM: The JunTos mission is directly influenced by the circumstances of their young lives and deaths.

 

AM: Was the art auction always a part of the event, if not when did it start?

MM: At first it was a silent auction with many items.  Then we saw interest in the artwork and developed the idea of a “premier” auction, with upscale artists and their works.

 

LG:  The talent in Miami is unbelievable – you will see all the unique artists participating in the auction.

MM: The event attracts young people and they love art… and buy art for themselves.

 

AM: And I would think a big factor in the auctions success is the opportunity to buy local original art.

LG: Oh yea... Mostly originals and artists donate 100% of the sale to the cause.

 

AM: So JunTos raises money and donates it to different organizations like Jackson Memorial?

MM: Exactly. We also do things for individuals, pay for tuitions, we help all we can.

LG: You know even this event – none of the funds we raise from the art auction or any of the other offerings can be spent on the party – you get sponsors – Mass Mutual Link sponsors – go out and present your story & we get sponsors, they just start coming in – the entire party is covered by sponsors –  so then what ever we raise is what we give out to organizations – No overhead all volunteer – young people professionals who went to school with Toti and Juanchi – JunTos is the youngest foundation in Miami.

 

AM: What can one expect at the event and how does it help the JunTos mission

MMWhen you go to a JunTos event, you immediately feel like family.  That is because we want you to.  We share Juanchi and Toti’s lives through pictures, and stories.  In every corner you hear the boys talking about Juanchi and Toti and their jokes.  They call it “Toti and Juanchi’s party”.  Everyone that goes to one event always returns.  They tell us that JunTos is a very rewarding experience.  They all help our mission by buying art and spending money on merchandise, and other ideas we come up with every year.

 

AM: Maruchi, Lidia thank you for sharing your time and your personal connection to JunTos. I look forward to seeing you both at the event. 
 
JunTos, an enduring memorial, a symbol of hope and a testament to the power of family and friends coming together for a cure
 
To learn more, donate, or volunteer visit JunTos
 
JunTos honors, deeds and news
- 13 foot sculpture by internationally renowned artist, Rafael Consuegra’s

- Westminster Preseason Classic renamed to JunTos Spring Baseball Classic  

- Granted a "wish" through the Make-A-Wish Foundation

- Granted multiple scholarships to high school students to assist with their college education

- Given Courage Award at Annual Party (monetary gift given to a survivor of cancer or heart disease)

- Donated laptops, portable DVD players and a substantial collection of DVDs to the Jackson Memorial Cardiac Ward Recovery Room

- Made contributions to Jackson Memorial Hospital's Cancer Disparity Research Program and Children's Heart Center (via Golden Angel Society)